The most intriguing question yet unanswered. Many people think that woman is the most complex creation of God and complexity attracts the novice. When a boy turn into man he steps into a life of fantasies, fantasies that he want to realize as early as possible. While on the other hand when a girl steps in her adulthood she thinks differently. This is where the difference of thinking comes into play and men starts challenging God and asks "Hey! Can you understand her?"
Let's starts from the base and then move up the hill. Why there is a difference in thinking of men and women? Genes provides the answer. The male is responsible for mass reproduction because producing sperms needs much lesser energy as compared to an embryo and then gradually a child. Since female has to spend lot of energy and time so she has to make the right decision while on the other hand male has no worries about this. He finds the most healthy, perceived as beautiful, female and plants the seed.
Now what woman thinks that what she wants from man? let's hear her words.
"Gentleman"
"Honest"
"Relaxed"
"Entertainer"
Most women agree with these, Exceptions have fantasies ;)
With changing time the meaning of relationship has changed. Women today need not to worry about the "nine months" before having sex. This neutralized some of the early criteria while choosing the partner. Yet the effect is still present. Some women goes cozy on one night stand, others want long term relationship. Why there is difference? You can blame it to GOD again, he is good at diversity.
So what actually a woman wants in general?
Woman wants security. Security is felt when man tells the truth i.e he is honest. Security is felt when man behaves gently. Security is felt when man behaves what he is and not try to pretend. Doesn't matter much if he books table in a cheaper restaurant but this pays off in longer term because if man lies he will be found out at some point or the other. State confidently if you are not going for a long term relationship because God have concern for you and so he created diversity and your type of women. Man when makes it entertaining then it builds faith that this relationship is not based on mere attraction of flesh but care and emotions.
Besides these she wants that he remember her Birth date, don't stare at other women, carry her luggage, go for shopping with her, take her to movie every weekend, keep himself clean, have a concern for others, should have manners....blah blah blah. whooooosh!!!
GOD CAN YOU UNDERSTAND HER?
Sunday, November 23, 2008
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